How To Tell If He’s Mr. Right… Or Just Mr. Right Now!By The DivaGals | June 16, 2017 | Relationships
It may be down to the relationships weΓÇÖre exposed to when weΓÇÖre little or an innate love of Disney movies, but most of us grow up with intentions to find our perfect partner. They say thereΓÇÖs somebody out there for everyone, but some people tend to be a lot luckier in love than others. If youΓÇÖre on the hunt for “the one,” here are some signs to help you tell the difference between Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now.
You can be yourself.┬áWhen you first start dating somebody, you may feel awkward, and you might think that you have to put a lot of effort into what you wear, what you do and where you go. The key to long-term happiness is finding somebody who makes you feel comfortable and relaxed. It’s nice to dress up for a hot date months into your relationship, but if youΓÇÖre still worrying about your partner seeing you without makeup or you feel like you have to fill every moment of silence with conversation, this is a sign that this man probably isnΓÇÖt the perfect match for you. When youΓÇÖre with somebody, and you donΓÇÖt even have to think about what you look like or what youΓÇÖre saying, this makes for a healthy relationship. You should always be wary of relationships where you feel like you to have be somebody that youΓÇÖre not or you worry that youΓÇÖre putting on an act.
You have things in common.┬áAt the beginning of a relationship, we often prioritize the physical aspect, and we can get carried away thinking that the guy who gives us butterflies is the dream man weΓÇÖve been waiting for. ItΓÇÖs really important to have a physical connection, but donΓÇÖt let this cloud your judgment. When the honeymoon period wears off, have you got things in common? Can you chat for hours about nothing in particular? Are you able to have moments of silence that donΓÇÖt feel awkward? Do you share interests? Do you want the same things in life? If thereΓÇÖs common ground, youΓÇÖll find each other interesting and engaging long after those first date butterflies have fluttered away.
You can see a future together.┬áYou donΓÇÖt necessarily have to be dreaming of a 3-carat diamond ring after the first few dates, but itΓÇÖs always positive if you can see a future together. Sometimes, you know after a couple of meetings that this person isnΓÇÖt the one for you. Likewise, there may be that connection, and it may become clear, as times goes by, that actually, this is a person you want to spend a lot more time with and get to know better. Go with your gut, see how things go, and be open to spending more time together. You donΓÇÖt need to rush things or start planning a wedding after a couple of months, but sometimes, you just know that relationships are going to last.
Most of us want to find true love. Sometimes, it can strike when you least expect it, but in other cases, it can be much more elusive. If you havenΓÇÖt found the one yet, donΓÇÖt despair. Trust your instincts, and donΓÇÖt settle for the wrong person just because it feels like itΓÇÖs taking too long to find the right one.